Researchers have studied what children need to thrive, and the overwhelming answer is simple: positive relationships with adults. Being there for a child could be the difference between them struggling or finding success as they grow into adulthood. Having just one positive relationship with an adult can lessen a child’s risk of developing a mental health disorder. So, what does a positive relationship look like?
It’s essential to demonstrate care for children and teens. Have genuine interest in them and what they are interested in. Be there for them so that you become someone to trust and rely on. Additionally, encourage growth by challenging them. Have high expectations and encourage them to reach their goals. Help them interpret failures as learning opportunities.
In supportive child-adult relationships, it’s important to share power. This means respecting the child’s ideas and working together with them to make decisions. Children need boundaries, but they also need opportunities to lead and grow. It’s important that teens learn to be responsible with their growing autonomy as they progress into adulthood.
When it comes to children’s hopes and dreams, be supportive and encourage them to stretch their goals. Recognize their talents and personality traits and help provide them with opportunities to grow. Be the supportive adult relationship that will care for them and push them to reach their potential.