Addressing Alcohol as a Parent

Social hosting is when adults supply alcohol for underage adolescents. In every state, it is illegal to give alcohol to adolescents, with some states making an exception for parents allowing their children to drink in their home. However, it is always illegal to supply your children’s friends with alcohol. 

Legality is important, but there are many reasons why you shouldn’t supply adolescents with alcohol. Their brains are still developing, meaning that alcohol use could affect their brain development, causing permanent damage. Additionally, teen alcohol use often causes trouble in school or may lead to events such as injury, assault, and unwanted, unplanned, or unprotected sexual activity. Alcohol use at a young age also makes addiction more likely, which could turn into a lifelong struggle. 

Prevent alcohol use in your home by refusing to supply adolescents with alcohol and keeping alcohol in your home in a secure location where your teen won’t be able to take it without your permission. Set clear expectations with your children regarding alcohol use. Make substance use a common topic of conversation, having regular discussions with your teen about the dangers of underage substance use. Create a safety plan with them so that they know how to say no to peer pressure and how to contact you if they ever need out of an unsafe situation. 

Parents can help or hinder their child’s relationship with alcohol and substance use. This influence starts young. Choose to actively look for ways to encourage your children’s safety and model responsibility when it comes to alcohol use. Your actions can make an impact on your child’s life.